httpdl/cli: drop --auto-split; classify errors by type, not message text

Two Pike cleanups.

--auto-split was a got-only third connection-count policy (beside -x and -s)
that invented rather than matched aria2. Removing it also retires the now-dead
autoConns/maxAutoConns and the per-host transport cap that existed only to scale
for it; min(split, M*-x) is the sole policy again.

main's exit-code mapping fell back to substring-matching third-party error text
(strings.Contains "connection refused"/"timeout"/...), which rots when a
dependency rewords a message. The typed checks (errors.Is on the syscall errno,
*net.DNSError, net.Error.Timeout, context.DeadlineExceeded) already cover the
real stdlib errors -- verified end to end: refused -> 6, bad host -> 19. The two
cases that genuinely needed the text match are our own errors, now typed
sentinels: httpdl.ErrTimeout (idle timeout) and the bt metadata timeout wrapping
context.DeadlineExceeded.

cli/option.go

@@ -81,7 +81,6 @@ var options = []Opt{
 	{Long: "max-connection-per-server", Short: 'x', Kind: Int, Default: "1", Min: 1, Max: 16, Help: "max connections to one server (1-16)", Tag: Basic},
 	{Long: "split", Short: 's', Kind: Int, Default: "5", Min: 1, Help: "split a download into N connections; actual connections are min(max-connection-per-server, split), and -x defaults to 1", Tag: Basic},
 	{Long: "min-split-size", Short: 'k', Kind: Size, Default: "20M", Min: 1 << 20, Max: 1 << 30, Help: "do not split a piece smaller than SIZE (1M-1024M)", Tag: Basic},
-	{Long: "auto-split", Kind: Bool, Default: "false", Help: "got-only: pick the connection count from file size (one per min-split-size, up to 16); overrides -x/-s", Tag: HTTP},
 	{Long: "force-sequential", Short: 'Z', Kind: Bool, Default: "false", Help: "download each command-line URI as its own file instead of mirroring them", Tag: HTTP},
 	{Long: "max-tries", Short: 'm', Kind: Int, Default: "5", Min: 0, Help: "max retries per segment (0 = unlimited)", Tag: HTTP},
 	{Long: "timeout", Short: 't', Kind: Int, Default: "60", Min: 1, Help: "connection timeout in seconds", Tag: HTTP},